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By: Santi Chacon
Executive Coach
The Altar Illusion
Jesus: So if when you are offering your gift at the altar you there remember that your brother has any [grievance] against you, leave your gift at the altar and go. First make peace with your brother, and then come back and present your gift. Come to terms quickly with your accuser while you are on the way traveling with him, lest your accuser hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the guard, and you be put in prison. Truly I say to you, you will not be released until you have paid the last fraction of a penny.
The Fourth Attitudinal Principle: Attitude Toward Time
Come to terms quickly with your accuser while you are on the way traveling with him...
At the appearance of conflict, Jesus points out that our perception of time is important. At a moment when we witness misaligned attitudes, the cause has already taken root. Time will work against us if we do not take care of matters quickly. To offer healing is a purpose of time. To extend humility in a time of emotional upheaval is the price of peace.
Guilt and Accusation
We abide in our internal world filled with guilt; guilt that is then transformed in self-criticism or self-condemnation. Guilt is then projected as individuals become critical or suspicious of another persons' motive or actions.
The Source for Accusation
The world we see merely reflects our own internal frame of reference the dominant ideas, wishes and emotions in our minds.Projection makes perception. We look inside first, decide the kind of world we want to see and then project that world outside, making it the truth as we see it. We make it true by our interpretations of what it is we are seeing. If we are using perception to justify our own mistakes our anger, our impulses to attack, our lack of love in whatever form it may take we will see a world of evil, destruction, malice, envy and despair. All this we must learn to forgive, not because we are being good andcharitable, but because what we are seeing is not true. We have distorted the world by our twisted defences, and are therefore seeing what is not there. As we learn to recognise our perceptual errors, we also learn to look past them or forgive. At the same time we are forgiving ourselves, looking past our distorted self-concepts to the Self that God created in us and as us.
Healing of Condemnation
The Holy Spirit forgives everything because God created everything. Do not undertake His function, or you will forget yours. Accept only the function of healing in time, because that is what time is for...[God] will teach you how to see yourself without condemnation, by learning how to look on everything without it. Condemnation will then not be real to you, and all your errors will be forgiven.
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